Moving Forward with Determination and Gratitude
I wouldn’t be here today if it weren’t for House of Charity. My family would have buried me two years ago—I would have frozen to death in my car,” Jennifer shares.
Jennifer had been living in her car for two years before finally asking for help from her primary care physician, who referred her to House of Charity.
About eight years ago, Jennifer suffered a horrible accident. She was out shopping for last-minute stocking stuffers for Christmas when a drunk driver sped through the Walgreens’ parking lot, striking her as she was walking to her car. She was crushed up against another car. After suffering severe trauma to her body, namely her back, Jennifer was released from the hospital a few days later and returned to work. Jennifer worked two jobs as a Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA) at two assisted living facilities for the elderly, a field she loved and had been working in for 18 years. She continued to work her regular schedules at both jobs and ignored the constant pain she continued to experience after the accident.
A few years later, Jennifer slipped and fell on concrete, landing on her back. This new injury, compounded with her previous injury that never healed, forced Jennifer to have necessary back surgery. Jennifer had become disabled and was unable to work. With her limited disability income, she lost her home. She moved what furniture she could into storage and began living in her car.
In the winter of 2012, Jennifer knew she needed help. Jennifer admits to being hesitant at first to ask for help and then even more so when it was time for her to actually set foot in House of Charity. She drove by and suddenly felt compelled to come in. She said, that right off the bat, she was welcomed and treated with compassion and respect from House of Charity’s Intake Coordinator. There were no immediate openings for Jennifer, but a month later, the Intake Coordinator called her and notified her that there was a place for her if she still needed a place to stay. The next day, Jennifer moved in to House of Charity.
She quickly moved from our transitional housing residence to her own apartment in our Housing First program.
Jennifer began working with her Case Manager in our Transitional Housing Program and began taking Housing First classes right away. In the five course series, she learned about rental leases and landlord/renter relations, budgeting, how to be a good neighbor, and challenges of living alone. She was determined to get on her feet, get her own place, and start living life again. She appreciated her Case Manager’s open door policy and how she went to bat for her when it came time to find Jennifer an apartment. Jennifer was in our Transitional Housing Program for five months before moving on to our Housing First Program.
Jennifer has a great relationship with her Housing First Advocate. They meet weekly and since Jennifer can no longer drive; her Advocate also goes above and beyond by taking her to regular doctor’s appointments. Jennifer said that if she didn’t have the support of her Advocate along with her housing, she would not have been able to make it. Her Advocate also helps Jennifer deal with her mental health and self-esteem issues; she helps her find resources, with activities of daily living, and with goal-setting.
Currently, Jennifer, with the support of her Housing First Advocate, is exploring where to go from here and how to change professions. Jennifer is devastated by the fact that she cannot physically perform the work that she enjoyed doing for so many years as a Certified Nursing Assistant. It has been difficult to figure out employment as Jennifer can neither sit nor stand for long periods of time and has to walk with a cane. Jennifer would like to continue to work in healthcare and is looking in to relative education and training options.
She is currently coming up on her one year anniversary of being in her own apartment. Jennifer remains grateful to House of Charity and optimistic for the future. The advice she gives to those in similar situations that she was in is to ask for help and remember that House of Charity doesn’t want you to fail.
It can be so simple,” she says, “take the classes that they offer, meet with your Case Manager/Advocate, do the paperwork, and just follow the rules…you’ll be on your feet in no time.”